When Leadership Weeps The Power of Reverent Submission in Business

There’s a moment in the life of Jesus that doesn’t make it onto many inspirational posters. No miracles. No crowds. No sermons. Just the Son of God, fully human, weeping and begging in the dark.

Hebrews 5:7 captures this raw, sacred scene: “In the days of His flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to Him who was able to save Him from death, and He was heard because of His reverence.”

This is not just a spiritual insight. It’s a leadership masterclass.

It’s also a mirror. One that reflects your life, your pain, your work, and your calling.

Let’s go there.

The Pressure Cooker of Leadership

We like to think of leadership as boardrooms, vision statements, and rallying cries. But anyone who has led anything meaningful, whether a team, a business, or a family, knows that true leadership often happens behind closed doors, in the pressure cooker of decisions that crush you before they crown you.

Jesus, in “the days of His flesh,” was not floating through life as some untouchable deity. He was in the trenches of reality, shouldering purpose, facing rejection, and ultimately embracing suffering. The language used here isn’t subtle: loud cries and tears. This was a guttural outpouring. A breaking point.

Have you been there?

That late-night decision that no one sees. The silent weight of responsibility. The tears you hide behind your title or your task list.

Leadership weeps. But it doesn’t quit.

You’re Not Heard Because You’re Loud You’re Heard Because You’re Reverent

Here’s the twist. Scripture says Jesus was heard because of His reverence. Not because He had the loudest pitch or the strongest platform. Not because He worked harder than everyone else. But because His heart was anchored in submission.

Reverent submission, it’s not weakness. It’s spiritual strength.

It’s strategic humility.

In business, we often reward boldness, dominance, and grit. But the deepest breakthroughs often come not from posturing, but from posturing your heart. Reverence is not about silence; it’s about surrender. It’s the recognition that some outcomes are beyond your control, but never beyond your reach if you’re aligned with purpose.

This applies in every boardroom and every backend system. Sometimes your biggest leadership win is not the decision you made, but the posture you held when you didn’t know what to do.

The Garden Before the Glory

Before Jesus ever wore a crown of glory, He sat in the garden of agony. Before the resurrection came the wrestling. That’s not just theology. That’s the blueprint.

In your professional life, you’re going to hit moments where strategy can’t carry the weight, where the metrics don’t match the mission, where your passion feels like it’s slipping through your fingers.

That’s your garden moment.

And here’s the truth: God shapes your crown in the soil of surrender.

You don’t get the influence without the internal work. You don’t get the stage without the solitude. You don’t get the calling without the cries.

Lead Like You’ve Wept

Let’s talk about impact. The best leaders I know don’t lead from a place of perfection, they lead from scars. They’ve been through something. They’ve been refined. Their voice carries weight because their heart has known the weight of “not my will, but Yours.”

When you lead like you’ve wept, you become safe for others to grow around. You don’t lead by pushing from the front or dragging from the back, you lead by walking with people through the messy middle.

That’s what Jesus did.

So ask yourself:

• Have you created a culture where tears aren’t seen as weakness?
• Do your clients, team, or family feel safe bringing their whole selves into the room?
• Are you building systems around strength, or are you shaping them around shared humanity?

Your answer to these questions might reveal more about your future impact than your quarterly goals ever will.

What’s in Your Cry?

Let’s get painfully practical. What have you been carrying silently? What load has become “normal” for you but is eating your confidence, your creativity, your calling?

The invitation here isn’t to drop everything. It’s to bring everything.

Bring your doubts. Bring your longings. Bring the things you haven’t said aloud in months. Lay them down in prayer, not as a last resort, but as your first submission.

Because Jesus shows us this: your prayers don’t have to be polished to be powerful.

They just have to be real.

The Crossover Point: Faith and Function

Here’s where this all collides, faith and business, devotion and daily grind. When you lead from reverence, you make decisions differently. You handle conflict with perspective. You value people more than process. You stop trying to manipulate outcomes and start managing obedience.

And that, ironically, is where your influence multiplies.

The world doesn’t need more perfect leaders. It needs present ones. Reverent ones. Whole ones. Leaders who’ve been in the garden and still choose the cross.

Take This With You

If you remember nothing else from today, remember this: You are not disqualified by your tears.

You are deepened by them.

Your Savior wept. And in doing so, He showed us what true authority looks like, submission, vulnerability, and trust in a higher outcome.

So today, show up real. Let your leadership breathe. Let your humanity bleed through the spreadsheet, the sermon, or the strategy.

Because when heaven hears reverence, it moves. And when leaders lead from that place, everything changes.

A Prayer for Reverent Leadership

Father,

In the quiet corners of our lives, where the pressure is high and the answers feel out of reach, we come to You just as Jesus did: not polished, but honest. With loud cries, silent doubts, and hearts that want to trust even when it’s hard.

You see the burdens we carry, the ones behind our titles, beneath our strategies, and beyond our control.

Teach us what it means to lead like Jesus, not from perfection, but from reverence. Help us surrender what we cannot fix, and trust what You are shaping in the waiting.

Give us the courage to lead with empathy, the strength to stay when it’s uncomfortable, and the wisdom to know when You are calling us to simply be still.

Thank You for being a God who hears our cries and honors our surrender.

Help us lead from the garden, not just from the mountaintop.

Amen.

Take a moment now, breathe deep, sit still, and ask: “Where is God inviting me to lead from a deeper place today?”

Reflection and Journaling

Here are 3 powerful reflection questions inspired by the heart of the article:

1. Where in my life or leadership am I trying to control outcomes instead of surrendering to God’s will, and what would reverent submission look like in that space?
2. How have I viewed tears, pain, or pressure, as weaknesses to hide or as sacred moments God can use to refine me and strengthen others through me?
3. In what ways can I lead, at home, at work, or in my community, from a place of empathy, presence, and trust rather than performance or perfection?

These questions aren’t just for reflection, they’re catalysts for growth. Let them guide your next step in purpose, prayer, and personal impact.